What do we actually want from sex
 
The question is, what do we want from sex?
When I ask couples this, they answer, great orgasm, great blowjob, lots of kissing, seeing that you enjoy it, feel you, intimacy. What they long for are pleasure and closeness. I call it pleasurable closeness.
 

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 Every day at 12 pm I picked up my little girl from her school.

She is three years old and the most beautiful little thing.
Every day when I arrive, I see her little face light up with excitement, anticipation and a deep longing to be close to me.
And when I answer her excitement with arms open, inviting her to jump she screams with excitement and asks me "Did you come to get me?".
And I answer, "I did, I am here."

 

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